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WHAT THIS BOOK TEACHES
That we are born "free and equal" is a glorious truth in one
sense, yet we are not all born equally rich, and we never shall
be. One may say; "there is a man who has an income of fifty
thousand dollars per annum, while I have but one thousand dollars; I
knew that fellow when he was poor like myself; now he is rich and
thinks he is better than I am; I will show him that I am as good as he
is; I will go and buy a horse and buggy; no, I cannot do that, but I
will go and hire one and ride this afternoon on the same road that he
does, and thus prove to him that I am as good as he is."
My friend, you need not take that trouble; you can easily
prove that you are "as good as he is;" you have only to behave as well
as he does; but you cannot make anybody believe that you are rich as he
is. Besides, if you put on these "airs," add waste your time and spend
your money, your poor wife will be obliged to scrub her fingers off at
home, and buy her tea two ounces at a time, and everything else in
proportion, in order that you may keep up "appearances," and, after
all, deceive nobody.
On the other hand, Mrs. Smith may say that her next-door
neighbor married Johnson for his money, and "everybody says so." She
has a nice one- thousand dollar camel's hair shawl, and she will make
Smith get her an imitation one, and she will sit in a pew right next to
her neighbor in church, in order to prove that she is her equal.
My good woman, you will not get ahead in the world, if your vanity and
envy thus take the lead. In this country, where we believe the majority
ought to rule, we ignore that principle in regard to fashion, and let a
handful of people, calling themselves the aristocracy, run up a false
standard of perfection, and in endeavoring to rise to that standard,
we constantly keep ourselves poor; all the time digging away for the
sake of outside appearances.
How much wiser to be a "law unto ourselves" and
say, "we will regulate our out-go by our income, and lay up something
for a rainy day." People ought to be as sensible on the subject of
money-getting as on any other subject. Like causes produces like
effects. You cannot accumulate a fortune by taking the road that
leads to poverty. It needs no prophet to tell us that those who live
fully up to their means, without any thought of a reverse in this life,
can never attain a pecuniary independence.
Men and women accustomed to gratify every whim and caprice, will
find it hard, at first, to cut down their various unnecessary expenses,
and will feel it a great self-denial to live in a smaller house than
they have been accustomed to, with less expensive furniture, less
company, less costly clothing, fewer servants, a less number of balls,
parties, theater-goings, carriage-ridings, pleasure excursions,
cigar-smokings, liquor-drinkings, and other extravagances; but, after
all, if they will try the plan of laying by a "nest-egg," or, in other
words, a small sum of money, at interest or judiciously invested in
land, they will be surprised at the pleasure to be derived from
constantly adding to their little "pile," as well as from all the
economical habits which are engendered by this course.
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